Feeling uninspired at the job? Bored with your relationship? Daily grind got ya down? Don’t panic! It’s normal to get stuck in a rut every now and then. By definition, a “rut” is “a habit or pattern of behavior that has become dull and unproductive but is hard to change.” Here are 3 simple ways to breathe life back into a situation that has lost its oomph and bust out of that rut!
1) Switch up your routines.
Doing everyday tasks a little differently helps awaken your brain to the present moment, fresh perspectives and creative solutions. So go ahead and put on your right shoe before your left; brush your teeth with your non-dominant hand; alter your commute; and once you get to your destination, be sure to open the door without using your hands!
2) Bust a new move.
If you’re a ballerina, take a tennis lesson. If you haven’t shaken your groove thang in twenty years, hit up YouTube for “how to crunk dance in three easy steps.” Gym rat? Take a Yin Yoga class. Our brains grow by trying new things. When you challenge your mind and body in new and uncomfortable ways, the growth is exponential. That narrow rut won’t be able to hold you.
3) Send out an SOS!
Ruts thrive in isolation and the notion that you have to handle everything on your own. You may convince yourself that it’s more hassle to involve others, even as the rut seems to close in around you. Start with a trusted friend. Tell them you’re stuck in a rut and ask them to help you shake things up by planning a surprise day together where you do something out of the ordinary. Take it to the next level by being blindfolded during the car ride. Letting go of being in control, trusting another person, and engaging some of your lesser used senses will catapult you of that rut!
There are countless little and large ways to ease or thrust yourself out of a rut. An easy way to remember the rut remedies are: wake up, shake up, and join up. Ask yourself the following 3 questions: “What tweaks to my routine wake me up to the present moment? What new movements (or sounds or colors) can I make that will shake up the dullness of my comfort zone? And, Who can I call on to help me reconnect with my aliveness and creativity?”
Go forth and bust a rut, and let me know how it goes!
