Busy clutter. You may not see it but chances are it’s clogging up your power to take control of your life. And it’s stealing your joy.
Are you suffering from busy clutter?
Look at your calendar. Is it crammed with ‘to dos’ and every hour (or more) accounted for? When you look at it, do you feel free and creative or does it make you cringe and want to cower under the covers?
Close your eyes for a moment. (Go ahead, I’ll wait.)
Did you do it? What did you hear? Was it, by chance, a running list of all that you have to do? And maybe some shame for wasting a moment closing your eyes?
Congratulations. You’ve got busy clutter.
For years, I struggled to finish all I had to do in an effort to earn the right to do what I wanted to do. The fact that I thought I had to do everything (and believed asking for help was a huge weakness) meant I never got around to the things I so desperately wanted to do. It wasn’t until I was completely exhausted, drained and craving creativity and connection that courage finally took the driver’s seat in my life.
And that meant saying the one word that changed everything:
The word is so small you wouldn’t think it would be such a big deal. But it is. Sure, we all have responsibilities, whether it be paying bills, raising children, making money, etc. but so often we place extra unnecessary responsibilities on ourselves and bury our heart’s desires under the burden of it all.
The time has come for you to unburden yourself of the unnecessary strife by shouting some very necessary no’s.
Here's a list of a few things you might consider saying no, thank you to:
What will you do with all that free time you now have? Why, say YES to your life, of course! Along the way you may find yourself embracing the following:
Saying no isn’t easy – if it was you would have been doing it long ago. Making your first attempt at ‘no’ might seem monumental. And it is. Because this is the first step at saying a great big YES to yourself.
And oh, you SO deserve it.
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