4 Simple Steps to Manifest Your Dreams, Desires, and Goals

BY Steffani LeFevour        May 8, 2015

We all want to create the life of our dreams, right?

If you are familiar with the basics of the law of attraction, then you know how to use it. You know that thoughts become things, you know that your thoughts place an order with the universe, and you know that what you focus on you'll get more of. Well, if we know that and it works all the time, every time, then why aren't we living the life of our dreams? Why have we been trying and trying to manifest a certain thing, whether it be a relationship or a job or a certain creative success or a possession, and why hasn't it happened yet?

Well, here's a great tool that will help you... Try these 4 simple steps to manifest your dreams, desires and goals, and watch them leap into your life.

Step #1: Get excited and KNOW that it will come.

The first and most important step in this 4 step process is GET EXCITED! Really get excited! Let's pretend that I'm a world renowned psychic and I just looked into your very near future and told you that your most treasured dreams, your most sought after goals, are happening to you right now. They've been ordered and they've been shipped. They'll be arriving shortly. What would you do? Would you celebrate? Would you jump for joy? You would par-tay! You would get excited. You would think holy-cow it's actually happening. So get in that feeling place, get excited and KNOW that it will come! Have faith, stay strong, and celebrate its arrival.

Step #2: Change your thoughts by any means possible.

This step is very important and usually a little challenging for most people. You see, you can't expect great things when you're thinking lousy thoughts. So, if you have any negative or contradictory thoughts to that big manifestation you're working towards, you MUST change those thoughts. How do I change those thoughts, you ask? Well, there are a lot of options. Choose one that works for you. You can first stamp "cancel" on the thought when it comes up. Use this great phrase shared with me by my friend and teacher, Andy Dooley: "Stop, cancel, clear... I have nothing to fear... all my love is here." Repeat powerful affirmations, write affirmations daily, read affirmations daily. Read books that inspire you and surround yourself with people who inspire you. Do things you love. Redirect your thoughts to something you love. You can also try the very effective and profound work of Byron Katie, which teaches you to inquire on the stressful thought, ask four questions, and then turn it around. Look into more ways to change those negative thoughts and change them by any means possible. Your thoughts MUST align with your dreams. So think good thoughts, stay positive, and remember those thoughts are creating things in your life.

Step #3: Be grateful for where you are and appreciate every little success.

Soak in gratitude. Bathe in appreciation. Be overwhelmingly grateful for exactly where you are. After all, there is a lot to be thankful for isn't there? You have everything you need at this perfect moment in time. Be grateful for every little success. For the fact that you're here, you're breathing, you're smiling, you're manifesting. You have created the right and perfect life that you have around you right now. And if you want to enhance that perfect life, you have to be grateful for it. Celebrate every success, appreciate every success -- from that parking space you manifested to the smell of coffee... soak it all in and FEEL grateful.

Step #4: Do what makes you happy and let it flow.

Now, here's the fun part... sit back, smile, and allow it all in. The key to allowing that manifestation into your life right now and for good is to FEEL GOOD! It's that easy. Be happy. Do what you love. Do every little thing that makes you happy and you're bound to feel good. When you're laughing, when you're smiling, when you could do what you're doing all day, then you're in the flow. There's nothing that can stop you. You're powerful beyond measure. And in that happy state of mind, your manifestations are moving at the speed of light. You've done it. It's here. Sit back and enjoy it!

Mike Dooley, author of the great book Infinite Possibilities says, "Thoughts Become Things!" And Wayne Dyer eloquently teaches, "you create your thoughts, your thoughts create your intentions, your intentions create your reality." Get excited, change your thoughts, be grateful and be happy. You'll find joy in the journey and you'll be living the life of your dreams before you know it.


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Steffani LeFevour

Founder and CEO of My Happi Life, head of her own production company, Director of Happiness at Lifebook Chicago, and lifelong fitness enthusiast and instructor - Steffani LeFevour is an example for busy mom’s everywhere. She has studied human potential and been in the business of self-improvement for over 20 years. Mom of two, she will be the first one to tell you that to lead a truly fulfilled life, one must invest in themselves first and do the work. She certainly has!

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