10 Signs You Are Your Own Biggest Fan

BY Gunjan        June 20, 2017

Self love is a spiritual practice. Loving yourself is not a choice, but a necessity if you want to live a healthy and happy life. Here are 10 signs that prove you are doing great!

1. You create your own path.

When you love yourself, you make your own decisions. You know that whatever decision you make is the right one. You create your own path, your own reality, without worrying about what others do. You have your own vision for your life.

2. You don't need society’s approval.

When you love yourself, you don’t care what other people think of you. Your happiness isn't dependent on other people's approval. You approve of yourself and that's all that matters.

3. You follow your heart.

When you love yourself, you follow your own heart to happiness. You know that you matter. You know that you deserve love as much as anyone else.

4. You don't mind making mistakes.

When you love yourself, you don't mind making mistakes because you don't strive for perfection. You know that even if you don't succeed, it doesn't diminish your worth. You just back up and try again.  

5. You always try again. 

When you love yourself, no one can keep you down for long. Even if you fall, you always get back up, learn the lesson, and try again. Life is an adventure and not a destination for you.

6. You maintain a positive mindset.

When you love yourself, no matter what happens, you maintain a positive mindset. You believe in a better future ahead. You are an optimist at heart. You know that whatever happens, happens for the best... and you keep going.

7. You speak your truth. 

When you love yourself, you know that if you don't speak your truth a part of you feels incomplete. You can’t be disloyal to your soul, and if it means you have to stand alone then you will. You can't hide your truth.  

8. You show your emotions.

When you love yourself, you aren't afraid to show your emotions. When you're sad, other people know. When you're hurt, other people know. When you're angry, other people know. You don't have to put up a mask to protect yourself. 

9. You know it's okay if someone doesn't like you. 

When you love yourself, you speak what's in your heart and the chances are that someone may not like you for it. Only the people who resonate with your truth will like you, and that's okay with you.

10. You think outside the box.

When you love yourself, you bring change to society through your unique vision. You follow your unique path. You have your own beliefs and values. You are an out-of-the-box thinker, helping society create a new way of living.

Keep loving yourself and be a shining light for others! Your gifts and talents are needed!

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I am the founder and editor at www.goddesstent.com, sharing my knowledge and views on metaphysics and spirituality for women. As a child, I always felt different and tried to fit in, but every time I did something inside me resisted. It was my soul crying out, "You are here for a purpose... fulfill that, live that, be that!" This Indigo starseed always had an inner-knowing that there is more to life. My search for meaning lead me to self-help communities, which in turn triggered my spiritual awakening in 2015, and finally in 2017 the Universe helped me break free from societal conditioning. 

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