Why would one inflict "unkindness"
upon another?

Q:  Ok, so "cruel" is a judgment..., and no, don't believe in evil...but....if one Being of Light is "Light", why would One inflict "unkindness" upon another Being of Light?????????
 

A:  Unkindness is a judgment too, but there is still an answer.... LOVE is why. Someone may seem to act unkind, but their actions are based on their belief that what they are doing will correct, heal, improve, teach, or better the other.

Q:  And, if there is a calculated basis beneath, does this justify harshness in what we say????


A:  Harshness is just the degree of correction, healing, improvement, teaching, or betterment that is being applied. And don't forget... it takes 2 to Tango. There are no confrontations, ever, where those involved haven't agreed "ahead of time" on their roles. No victims.