My brother passed away over 10 years ago...

Q:  My brother passed away over 10 years ago... but I never dream about him, though I want to. Can you help?

A:  From time to time, when he comes to mind (don't make this a practice or a ritual):

1. Mentally send him heartfelt blessings and love. Don't ask for 2 way communication. Just send him your love. 2. Suggest to yourself before falling to sleep, only occasionally (not every night), that you WILL REMEMBER the dreams you have of him. You likely have dreams of him, but in the past have just forgotten them before waking. 3. Accept that for now, and maybe for long, long time, you might never REMEMBER having a dream of him... this is OK! Don't let this minor detail trouble you or create anxiety or doubt about your relationship. It won't change or effect the LOVE that supports and connects you both. He's doing just fine, and so are you, and you WILL meet again.