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Can we attract horrible things?

Q: Several months ago around October I began to be really scared about someone dying, especially someone in my immediate family. It haunted me in the back of my mind making me extremely scared and even paranoid I think. However, I know that I have most definitely put a lot of energy into the issue. I watched the DVD "The Secret" sometime in November, and since then I have specifically been putting energy into worrying if it will be attracting the loss of a family member or effecting me in some way with any type of loss. I feel like I’m drawing it closer to me every second it is on my mind...
 

A: Don’t worry! You sound like I used to be!

It is impossible to cause harm, or worse, to ANYONE through the Law of Attraction. IMPOSSIBLE! Everyone has their own thoughts, and its their thoughts that will dictate how their life will unfold.

As far as the anxieties, I used to have a lot of those too. I used to be afraid (when I was around 9 years old), that my mother, who I’ve always loved, would abandon me. I mean I was terrified; I wouldn’t leave the house! In college I was terrified I would fail in my major. Used to have panic attacks during exams. 10 years ago I used to be afraid the planes I was in would crash.

Everyone has some insecurities, but it’s as if our positive thoughts are FAR MORE powerful than our negative ones. I still have the occasional irrational fear, but instead of freaking out about it, I do my best to ignore it. Sometimes it goes away, other times it lingers. If it lingers, I don’t even care.

I’ve learned that while I sometimes cannot stop a fearful line of thinking, I can always start a new line of thinking! Visualize once a day. During that time, if you are like me, you may still think some worrisome thoughts – that’s fine. Just do your best to think positive, happy thoughts of success in the areas that perhaps you otherwise may worry about, and after 5-10 minutes, let it go! That visualization, combined with your best foot forward in life, will always be enough to bring about the changes you most wish to see, and to succeed in any endeavor.

You are perfectly normal, and for your compassion and care of others, combined with your desire to understand the nature of reality, you will live an extraordinarily, wonderful live – no doubt helping thousands upon thousands in the process.

Glad to have met you.

 



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