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Did I ruin this
relationship?Q: I said and did some terrible things to someone dear
to me and I don't know if she will ever be able to forgive me and give
us another chance together.
It may be that I have caused so much pain, chaos, and confusion to
this person and this relationship that I shouldn't even bother.
Would it be better just to quit and stop making both our lives so
miserable and unhappy?
A: This might not be easy to hear, but I don't think it
is ever wise to make another person the "how" to your happiness.
All you can do is apologize. Do that, and then let go. Stop
beating yourself up. She might come back, she might not, but either
choice on her part should have little to do with your happiness. You
can be happy either way.
There are an infinite number of people out there who you could
share the journey with - and all will find you more fun and
interesting if you can find happiness without them.
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