A: You
don’t have to honor anything except your own joy. And your joy, in
spite of appearances, does not hinge on a specific person. This is
probably your test, as opposed to learning “how” to love him -
learning to love yourself, and always seeing that you have options,
and that you are perpetually making choices.
Look more
closely, and you will see even more options – with and without this
person.
Forcing a
relationship of any kind, predefining it, is the classic “cursed
how.”
