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Mike is often posed with some great questions about life, dreams, and happiness. Some are very personal, while others are general. These questions are often the kind we've all wrestled with in our lives, sometimes deducing our own answers, other times not. Since many of these questions are universal, Mike began posting answers here so that others might benefit from the correspondence.*

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Question of the Day


I'm unhappily married

Dear Mike, things seem to be going sour. My step-children run my marriage, and my husband lets them. He is not a "warm" person. Today, I met someone who was witty, kind, warm, and seemed more like me than me. I don't have the answer, but I feel unloved, and those LOVED feelings are what I want back. I am in a quandary. Maybe I was meant to never marry again after my prior husband of 15 years (who abandoned my daughters and I). Maybe I was meant to meet many men who made me smile without being responsible for THEIR happiness...

Answer


You are responsible for you and your own happiness, and you must pursue being happy! However, being happy means taking responsibility for understanding your present situation and those people already in your life, otherwise it's too easy to bounce...
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Question of the Day


I'm unhappily married

Dear Mike, things seem to be going sour. My step-children run my marriage, and my husband lets them. He is not a "warm" person. Today, I met someone who was witty, kind, warm, and seemed more like me than me. I don't have the answer, but I feel unloved, and those LOVED feelings are what I want back. I am in a quandary. Maybe I was meant to never marry again after my prior husband of 15 years (who abandoned my daughters and I). Maybe I was meant to meet many men who made me smile without being responsible for THEIR happiness...

Answer


You are responsible for you and your own happiness, and you must pursue being happy! However, being happy means taking responsibility for understanding your present situation and those people already in your life, otherwise it's too easy to bounce from one person to the next and find the same patterns repeating. I'm not saying that you must "stay where you are," but I am saying that oftentimes challenging relationships are gifts for learning, growing, and eventually finding greater happiness. Only you know what you should do. And if you are uncertain, then do nothing and wait.

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